First of all, you have to have gone to Stan's and gotten a log in name there. Don't worry. It's completely free and they won't try to sell you anything. Just a cool place to hang out and play some chess.
After that, all you have to do is go to my "Contact me" page and give me a VALID e-mail address, and your log in name at Stan's along with your skill level. I will quickly send you a auto-reply confirmation message to let you know that I got it. I will review the information and get back to you to let you know where and who you will be playing.